Comments for When you're gone http://rachel1009.wordpress.com dealing with the realities of a break up and how it really isn't the end of the world... or so they say Sun, 18 May 2008 02:18:13 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on scared and uncertain by noreflectioninmymirror http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/05/18/scared-and-uncertain/#comment-77 noreflectioninmymirror Sun, 18 May 2008 02:18:13 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=45#comment-77 I completely understand how you feel. My granduation was rather bitter-sweet. I was dating this new guy and my ex was there too and I didn't know which one to run to after it was all over. Needless to say when i left w/ the new guy, I wanted so badly to run to my ex, but I didn't. I know you really cared about him, but if I learned anything it was this: your young and there are plenty of new guys out there....some are losers...but you will find the guy that thinks the sun rises and sets on you. So plz have your cry b/c I had mine too...but after....dry your eyes...walk tall....and honey you will be just fine. I completely understand how you feel. My granduation was rather bitter-sweet. I was dating this new guy and my ex was there too and I didn’t know which one to run to after it was all over. Needless to say when i left w/ the new guy, I wanted so badly to run to my ex, but I didn’t. I know you really cared about him, but if I learned anything it was this: your young and there are plenty of new guys out there….some are losers…but you will find the guy that thinks the sun rises and sets on you. So plz have your cry b/c I had mine too…but after….dry your eyes…walk tall….and honey you will be just fine.

]]> Comment on When is it not going to be so hard? by missingyou36 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/when-is-it-not-going-to-be-so-hard/#comment-61 missingyou36 Thu, 08 May 2008 23:25:55 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=42#comment-61 I know how you feel, I have been there..... I love this girl, and because of things, not anything we did to one another, together we will never be..... I often think of her, almost every minute of every day. My heart aches for her all the time. The way she would smile, with her cute dimples; the scent of her long dark hair while I walked behind her; the way she told me she loved me; the way she would stick her fork in my eggs... It was all simple stuff that made me love her. Our love was something special, something I never experienced. It was love from the start and it grew way too fast! Then it disappeared just as fast, way too fast. I love her with all my heart. It's out of love that I leave her alone. Maybe one day she will come to her senses and realize that there is a sweet guy who would do anything for her. My advice to you...if you do love him...call him and tell him...it's never too late. I know how you feel, I have been there…..

I love this girl, and because of things, not anything we did to one another, together we will never be…..

I often think of her, almost every minute of every day. My heart aches for her all the time. The way she would smile, with her cute dimples; the scent of her long dark hair while I walked behind her; the way she told me she loved me; the way she would stick her fork in my eggs… It was all simple stuff that made me love her.

Our love was something special, something I never experienced. It was love from the start and it grew way too fast! Then it disappeared just as fast, way too fast.

I love her with all my heart. It’s out of love that I leave her alone. Maybe one day she will come to her senses and realize that there is a sweet guy who would do anything for her.

My advice to you…if you do love him…call him and tell him…it’s never too late.

]]> Comment on i’m not alone, just lonely all the time. by stelios2008 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/27/im-not-alone-just-lonely-all-the-time/#comment-40 stelios2008 Sun, 27 Apr 2008 16:05:32 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-40 I didn't believe I could see such an open approach to this kind of "personal situation". I didn't want to admit that we, people, are the same in so many ways You are dealing very well with your problem - you have gone more than half of the way. Eventually, you will keep a sweet memory. I didn’t believe I could see such an open approach to this kind of “personal situation”.
I didn’t want to admit that we, people, are the same in so many ways
You are dealing very well with your problem – you have gone more than half of the way. Eventually, you will keep a sweet memory.

]]> Comment on Nothing’s forever in this crazy world. by rodessa http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/22/nothings-forever-in-this-crazy-world/#comment-24 rodessa Tue, 22 Apr 2008 05:23:43 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=30#comment-24 I can relate to you rachel. I broke up with my ex last 3 months ago, and these past few weeks, he got my number from my friend and texted me, BUT he's committed now. And it sucks that it hurts me. It's painful because I'm still hoping that maybe, we could get back together, but it isn't. Well, learn to let go, and move on. It's been so hard to do it, but slowly by slowly, you'll find much better than him. I understand the feeling of "missing him", because I miss my ex too. :( I can relate to you rachel. I broke up with my ex last 3 months ago, and these past few weeks, he got my number from my friend and texted me, BUT he’s committed now. And it sucks that it hurts me. It’s painful because I’m still hoping that maybe, we could get back together, but it isn’t. Well, learn to let go, and move on. It’s been so hard to do it, but slowly by slowly, you’ll find much better than him. I understand the feeling of “missing him”, because I miss my ex too. :(

]]> Comment on Why do we let ourselves get hurt so easily? by grayshade http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/10/why-do-we-let-ourselves-get-hurt-so-easily/#comment-10 grayshade Thu, 10 Apr 2008 09:26:41 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-10 have you ever heard abwt a donkey sacrificing its life for another donkey? it would be way too much easier if we just never love and live our lives just breading and producing to keep the human race alive, but we will never feel the peace in just sitting next to that person and doing nothing but lsning to him/her breathing. it is all abwt compromising if u are wlling to go thru pain to reach the peace in life then try love if u think peace is not worth it then just sell ur heart to ur brain and just be. the thing is that i felt peace once, it is worth it have you ever heard abwt a donkey sacrificing its life for another donkey?
it would be way too much easier if we just never love and live our lives just breading and producing to keep the human race alive, but we will never feel the peace in just sitting next to that person and doing nothing but lsning to him/her breathing.
it is all abwt compromising
if u are wlling to go thru pain to reach the peace in life then try love if u think peace is not worth it then just sell ur heart to ur brain and just be.

the thing is that i felt peace once, it is worth it

]]> Comment on How do you move on if you’re not completely over it? by grayshade http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/08/how-do-you-move-on-if-youre-not-completely-over-it/#comment-9 grayshade Thu, 10 Apr 2008 09:21:24 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-9 we are not together anymore, the thing is that we were never together it was me alone with the idea of her with me, it is a long story but what i got to understand from it is that even though sometimes we just do not want to let go we just cant take standing up once again cuz we are so scared that we will fall once again, we have to stand up, cuz there is this small chance that when we fall the next time she/he will catch us we are not together anymore, the thing is that we were never together it was me alone with the idea of her with me,
it is a long story but what i got to understand from it is that even though sometimes we just do not want to let go we just cant take standing up once again cuz we are so scared that we will fall once again, we have to stand up, cuz there is this small chance that when we fall the next time she/he will catch us

]]> Comment on How do you move on if you’re not completely over it? by hopaboat http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/08/how-do-you-move-on-if-youre-not-completely-over-it/#comment-7 hopaboat Thu, 10 Apr 2008 05:16:04 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-7 wow, I'm totally with you on this right now. My guy's name Is Justin, which is even similar. Some days are better than others though, right? How long has it been since you were together? wow, I’m totally with you on this right now. My guy’s name Is Justin, which is even similar. Some days are better than others though, right? How long has it been since you were together?

]]> Comment on Why do we let ourselves get hurt so easily? by rachel1009 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/10/why-do-we-let-ourselves-get-hurt-so-easily/#comment-6 rachel1009 Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:17:18 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-6 Definitely still love... i guess i just think it would be easier if i didn't. Definitely still love… i guess i just think it would be easier if i didn’t.

]]> Comment on How do you move on if you’re not completely over it? by grayshade http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/08/how-do-you-move-on-if-youre-not-completely-over-it/#comment-5 grayshade Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:05:23 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-5 the hardest part of holding on is letting go and the part that hurts the most in falling is standing up once again, but you have to let go at some point to hold on to something worth that effort, u have to stand up once again to put falling in the past tens :) the hardest part of holding on is letting go and the part that hurts the most in falling is standing up once again, but you have to let go at some point to hold on to something worth that effort, u have to stand up once again to put falling in the past tens

:)

]]> Comment on Why do we let ourselves get hurt so easily? by grayshade http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/2008/04/10/why-do-we-let-ourselves-get-hurt-so-easily/#comment-4 grayshade Thu, 10 Apr 2008 04:02:37 +0000 http://rachel1009.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-4 trust, its all abwt trust and taking chances in life, when a you put your self out to get hurt is like taking ur heart out and hand it to the person u love to save it from being hurt. now if that person was worth that trust he will keep that heart in his heart in his soul to save it away from anything, its not different than crying in front a friend that friend can do one of two things he can keep those tears in a box and hie them away so that no one would know or he would just put them aside and anyone could open that box. when u trust someone with ur love, with ur feelings u just try to find a person better than u to take care of u he might be good enough or he just might not. it has no happy ending but to put it in the past tens, that is all there is to do. but i want to ask something, u said "Like i can function without him, and yea i loved him a lot and loved having him be apart of my life" u used the past tense here but u seem like u still love him, what is it ? if u want to let it go u need to be honest with ur self do u or do u not love him still? trust,
its all abwt trust and taking chances in life, when a you put your self out to get hurt is like taking ur heart out and hand it to the person u love to save it from being hurt.
now if that person was worth that trust he will keep that heart in his heart in his soul to save it away from anything, its not different than crying in front a friend that friend can do one of two things he can keep those tears in a box and hie them away so that no one would know or he would just put them aside and anyone could open that box.
when u trust someone with ur love, with ur feelings u just try to find a person better than u to take care of u he might be good enough or he just might not.
it has no happy ending but to put it in the past tens, that is all there is to do.

but i want to ask something, u said “Like i can function without him, and yea i loved him a lot and loved having him be apart of my life” u used the past tense here but u seem like u still love him, what is it ?
if u want to let it go u need to be honest with ur self do u or do u not love him still?

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